Are you a person who wants a healthy loving relationship, yet is unsure what is in the way?
And if you are sure of what you don’t want, do you know how to shift your thinking and behavior so that you can get what you do want?
Is upset, regret or living in the past fueling non-productive attitudes that prevent loving possibilities?
Whether male or female, never married, divorced or widowed, who you choose to love and partner with will have a far-reaching effect on the quality of your future. Learning to choose wisely and to organize your thinking and behavior so that it builds a healthy, mutually satisfying relationship is essential. Step out of ambivalence, and learn some of the key dating and mate selection factors that propel “wishing” to actually “having” a loving partner in your life.
Individually-tailored sessions are designed to gather information about your relationship history and its impact on past choices. After we discuss what is happening currently, you may want to:
- exit and replace non-supportive, love-limiting emotions and attitudes
- alter ineffective communication with others and critical self-talk
- identify and interrupt “overly-giving” or “overly-controlling” behaviors, that in the past, have lead to unhealthy relating
Learning “Nine Key Thinking and Action Skills” will assist you to:
- avoid dating needy, angry or conflicted people who will zap your energy and create self-doubt
- foster a relationship of “voluntary love” instead of “obligated love”
- assert yourself and communicate effectively about specific issues: sex, travel, going to his home
- weed out the “dandelions” from the “keepers”
- develop a self-concept that reflects self-value and worth
- build confidence, competence, motivation and commitment to follow-through and achieve your ‘having a relationship’ goal
Sunday and evening appointments available for working people who cannot do daytime appointments.
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